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For those who cannot keep their dog, RAGOM is here to help
Sometimes life throws curveballs. It is a difficult decision for someone to realize they are not able to keep their dog, but it is sometimes the kindest and best choice they can make.
People surrender dogs to RAGOM for a variety of reasons. They might realize that having a dog is a bigger time or budget commitment than they anticipated. Maybe their dog has behavioral challenges and they don’t have the energy to work through them together. Sometimes, dogs come to us for really heartbreaking reasons – their family member needed to move into a nursing home, or they are fleeing a domestic abuse situation. Whatever the reason, RAGOM is here to help these dogs – and the people that love them.
What to expect when surrendering a dog
When someone contacts us because they need to surrender their dog, they typically receive a response from RAGOM within six hours. The RAGOM volunteer explains how our process works, and gathers information about the dog. The conversation usually lasts at least 45 minutes. RAGOM requests veterinary documents if available, and a photo of the dog, and then goes about recruiting a foster family for the dog. Once a foster is lined up, we work with the surrendering family to arrange a time to pick up their dog and welcome them into RAGOM’s care.
For RAGOM volunteers who work with surrendering families, the work is sometimes emotional. Volunteers are kind and compassionate. They act without judgement, recognizing they are working with people who are often emotional about re-homing their dog. “Knowing RAGOM has the people and programs to help the dogs to a better, life-long home is what makes it easier,” volunteer Lynn states.
For RAGOM, it’s rewarding to know we are helping dogs in need, and also the people who love them but know they are no longer the best home for their dog. Surrendering families get to see their dog’s updates on the RAGOM website, and know they are in loving hands and receiving the best of care. “When a dog comes into RAGOM, they are loved from the minute they enter the transport volunteer’s car,” volunteer Lynn states. RAGOM goes to great lengths to find a new loving family for each dog that is the perfect match for them.
RAGOM is here for those who are going through difficult circumstances and making difficult decisions for their dog. We have options to help you keep your dog in your home, and also understand that sometimes the most loving thing you can do is surrender your dog. We are committed to working with you to do what is best for your dog.
RAGOM has cared for Golden Retrievers and Golden mixes in need for nearly 40 years, so we know the breed well. Our volunteers offer loving hearts and warm homes. “We take the extra time and effort needed to find the right adopters for your dog, making sure it’s a good match for your dog’s needs,” volunteer Mark states.
Why choose a rescue dog?
You know what you’re getting
Our adoptable dogs live in foster homes until they find new families, and it gives us the chance to really get to know them. Besides the basics like the dog’s age, size, and any health concerns, we’ll be able to tell you what kind of temperament each dog has, and what kind of lifestyle would be a good match for them.You’ll know their health history
Every RAGOM dog has had a full medical examination, and are treated for most health concerns. They’re also spayed or neutered. When you adopt, you’ll receive the dog’s medical records and be made aware of any health issues, so you know what to expect.
You’ll save money
Some people think you have to spend a lot of money to get a good dog. This could not be farther from the truth! For starters, many people think they’re getting a quality dog because he or she “came with papers”. But those papers don’t mean anything – the breeder paid a small fee for the puppy to receive the certification, but no one inspects the puppy for health, or the breeder to ensure the dogs are well cared for. Adoption fees are much lower than the cost of buying a dog, and as mentioned above, when you adopt, your dog will have most health issues addressed, and you’ll be made aware of any others for which you need to budget. And if the dog you’re adopting isn’t already sterilized, your adoption fee will include the cost of spay/neuter if you have the procedure done at one of the veterinary clinics with which RAGOM partners.
With adult dogs, you don’t have to go through the puppy stage!
Sure, puppies are absolutely adorable. But they’re not housetrained. They’ll have accidents in the house, a lot of them. You’ll need to be prepared to get them outside frequently to teach them where to go to the bathroom, and you won’t be able to leave them for long periods of time.
Puppies also chew, a lot! Even with lots of toys available for them, they’ll undoubtedly wreck things in your house – your favorite clothes, shoes, towels, or furniture.
Puppies also require a lot of medical care. There are vaccinations and spay/neuter surgery to consider. All of which add up to a lot of money right from the start.
Adopting a rescue dog is incredibly rewarding
Ask anyone who has adopted a rescue dog, and they’ll all say the same thing. Adopting is incredibly rewarding. Watching your dog transform is such a special experience, and the bond you will share with your rescue dog is like no other. Remember – not all rescue dogs are “damaged”! Many are healthy and
social and will adapt to their new home with you easily. Other rescue dogs will require more rehabilitation and patience, but you’ll be provided with the information you need to help your new dog transform.
You’ll have many resources available to you when you adopt a dog, and you’ll become part of a larger community that wants you and the dog to succeed. Whenever you have questions about your newly adopted dog, there will be someone available to help you!
You’ll help even more dogs
When you adopt a dog, it frees up a foster home to save another dog in need, so you’ll save two dogs by adopting one. And your impact will be even greater – others will notice what a positive experience you’ve had. They’ll want to adopt a dog too, and the ripple effect will continue.
Save a life
Unfortunately, there are millions of homeless dogs in the United States alone. The sad reality is that a lot of them will be euthanized. Most of these dogs aren’t diseased or aggressive like you might expect – they’re healthy, friendly, wonderful dogs who deserve a second chance.
When you choose rescue, you’re saving a life. And you just might find, in their own special way, your new family member might change your life, too.
The Last Day: An adopter’s experience with saying goodbye
In the last four months we’ve had to make the difficult decision to help two of our beloved RAGOM dogs, Parker, then Angel, cross the bridge. It’s always agonizing making the final decision to help our pets cross the bridge and once our pets are gone, we are left with a cavernous void in our homes and our hearts.
We cherish memories of our dogs and wish for one more hand nudge, one more golden lean, or one more excited tail wag. We hope they’re still with us in spirit and sometimes we look for signs that show they’re still with us.
Parker passed in mid-October and on his last day with us, we bought a Happy Meal for him and took him to a place we fondly call Parker Park to have a picnic before we said good-bye. It’s one of our favorite local places with a beautiful scenic overlook where city and nature collide: the Big Rivers trailhead on the Big Rivers Regional Trail. From the overlook you see the vast Minnesota River Valley and wildlife refuge, and just north of the river valley sits the Minneapolis/St. Paul International Airport.
Immediately after Angel passed, we visited Parker Park because it gave us a sense of peace and closure knowing these two beloved dogs, who strangers always assumed were litter mates, were together again. As we approached the scenic overlook, I noticed one long stemmed yellow rose resting atop the snow on the decades-old stone ledge. Perhaps someone had also lost a loved one and this overlook was a favorite place. When I pointed out the rose to my husband, I said “Look! A golden rose.” It could have been one of many colors available for roses, but on this day, it just happened to be a golden rose, frozen and preserved for that moment in time. A sign? I took it as a sign of reassurance that the decision we had agonized over on this day, was the right decision for Angel.
It has been said that cardinals are visitors from heaven. This past Christmas, we visited family and friends in Phoenix. Late in the afternoon on the day after Christmas, we returned to our hotel room. I walked to the window to look at the pool and palm trees just beyond the towering bougainvillea in full bloom outside our window. Just to the left of the bougainvillea, almost camouflaged by bright red flowers, sat a male cardinal, perched atop the pool fence just 8’ from our patio door.
The Phoenix area is a small sliver of the cardinal’s overall U.S. territory. When I mentioned this sighting to a friend who has spent her life in Phoenix, she remarked that she had never seen a cardinal there. I’d like to think it was Parker, a day late in wishing us a Merry Christmas only because it took him a little extra time to find us because we weren’t in one of two of the usual places we spend Christmas in Minnesota.
The day before Angel passed, I looked at a photo of Parker and asked him to meet her at the bridge because she was stubborn and wouldn’t want to leave this life. He was a very good boy for 12.5 years so I knew I could count on him. As the vet administered Angel’s medicine, I told Angel to “look for Parker, go find Parker.”
When we arrived home, I looked out the window overlooking our backyard and saw a male cardinal sitting on a perch at the bird feeder, and I said “Hi Parker.” I smiled and turned away to pour a glass of water. When I turned around and faced the bird feeder again, the male was gone and a female cardinal had taken his place. Good boy, Parker. Good boy.
I know they found each other.
The most agonizing decision pet owners face is the decision to help their pets cross the bridge. I second guess myself every single time: is it too soon, did we wait too long, did we do the right thing? It is the single most important decision we can make for a pet’s quality of life. New pet owners ask “how do you know when”, and experienced pet owners reply with “you just know” or “your pet will tell you.”
You know your pet’s behavior better than anyone else, and your veterinarian knows their medical condition better than anyone else. Combining this knowledge can help guide you to the best decisions regarding your pet’s quality of life. Some of the things we think about: Do they still play with their favorite toys? Do they still come up to you for attention like they always have? Are they consistently laying differently on their dog beds? Looking back, the new, odd way Parker laid on his bed might have been a result of the discomfort he felt as a tumor grew in his abdomen. Has your dog stopped using their dog bed? Have your pet’s eating habits changed? Is the happy-go-lucky look in their eyes gone? Is their tail hanging down all the time?
Dogs have an incredible pain tolerance and want to please us at all costs, but there are signs. Look for the signs and trust your judgement, and trust the advice of your veterinarian.
A veterinarian once shared sage advice to help guide our decision making, and it is something we’ve kept in mind as we monitored Parker and Angel’s health: “Don’t make their last day, their worst day.” At the moment in time that we made the decision to help each of our dogs cross the bridge we second guessed ourselves, but looking back, we know we made the right decisions for Parker and Angel…and we continue to enjoy each cardinal that visits our yard.
Volunteers Make it Possible
Mary, hotline volunteer
Mary, a RAGOM volunteer since 2012, does transport, home visits, foster care (22 so far!), mentoring and hotline. Of her many roles, she says foster care and hotline are her favorites.
Hotline is the first point of contact for those looking to surrender their dogs. The hotline volunteer talks to the surrendering owner to get as many details as possible about the dog and reason for surrender. The hotline volunteer then passes that information to the intake team to find a foster and arrange for the dog’s surrender.
Mary began volunteering in hotline after her dog passed away and the emotional toll it took was immediate.
“On my second or third day, I called Kathy and said, ‘I can’t do this,’” said Mary. “Kathy said, ‘Yes you can.’ And I’ve been doing it ever since.”
Mary says that hotline volunteers do a lot of listening. Surrendering owners who call in are usually very distressed—sometimes angry but mostly just really, really sad and in need of consoling. Mary leaves the judgement at the door.
“Many times, the surrendering owner doesn’t want to have to give up the dog, but finances, a medical condition or losing a home leave the owner no choice,” said Mary.
Occasionally hotline volunteers get calls from people whose dog is clearly living in bad situation. In those cases, RAGOM works feverishly to get the dog out of its current environment immediately, even if it means boarding it while they look for a foster.
“You hear a lot of sad stories,” said Mary. “Some nights you don’t sleep very well. You have to be the advocate and the mouthpiece for the dog until the foster takes over.”
Hotline volunteers document their conversations with surrendering owners, but Mary says sometimes the story she captures on the intake form is only a small part of what she hears.
When asked if hotline took an emotional toll on her, she said, “In the beginning, you cry a lot. As time passes, it’s all about the dog. You need to put the emotion on a different plate, and the plate in front of me is ‘I have to get the dog into RAGOM’s care.’”
Laurie, lead transport coordinator
After hotline captures the information about the dog being surrendered, the intake team sends out a daily plea requesting foster volunteers. The dog’s disposition, needs and previous living environment are all taken into consideration when determining a suitable foster home. After intake finds the right foster home, they pass all the information—about the dog and the surrendering and foster homes—to a transport coordinator like Laurie.
Laurie has volunteered for RAGOM since 2009. She began as a foster and transport volunteer and is now a temporary foster and the lead transport coordinator. Her job is to arrange for the dog to get from its surrendering home to its foster home.
Her most memorable volunteer experience was about two years ago, when RAGOM received a call about 13 Oklahoma dogs needing a home. Their surrendering owner was moving into a nursing home.
The rescue organization in Oklahoma drove all 13 dogs to Minnesota in a van. Laurie and a group of RAGOM volunteers met them in a Walmart parking lot, but because of bad weather, seven of the planned foster volunteers couldn’t make it to pick up their dogs. So Laurie ended up taking all seven dogs home with her that evening.
“It was crazy but wonderful,” said Laurie. “It was freezing cold, but the dogs were amazing and handled the transport so well.”
The next day, the dogs went to each of their foster homes. But as soon as the dogs got to their foster homes, they shut down because they were missing their pack. So, over the next month, Laurie took four of the dogs back until they became settled enough that they could successfully separate from each other.
“I cried for every goodbye,” said Laurie.
Lloyd and Jeri, transport volunteers
After Laurie (or one of the other four transport coordinators) receives details about the surrendering dog, she reaches out to transport volunteers—like husband-and-wife team Lloyd and Jeri—to coordinate the various legs of the drive from the surrendering home to the foster home.
RAGOM volunteers since 2011, Lloyd and Jeri have volunteered in hotline, transport, home visits, screening and foster care. They enjoy transport the most because they get to meet a lot of different dogs and spend time together on the road.
Lloyd and Jeri say that when they first pick up a dog to transport, the dog is stressed. But they’ve found that Goldens have an exceptional ability to maintain joy in the face of trauma.
The first leg of the trip can be the most challenging, especially when the owners are devastated about surrendering their dogs because of unavoidable hardships. Lloyd and Jeri say it’s certainly an emotional experience but ultimately one that is rewarding.
“When it’s hard, the good thing is you know the dog is going to a good home in the end,” said Lloyd. “They’ll be medically taken care of, then have a good foster home and a good forever home, where they’ll be loved and cared for.”
Karen, foster volunteer
Karen, a RAGOM volunteer since 2005, is one such foster volunteer who receives the dogs Lloyd and Jeri transport.
Karen’s first RAGOM foster pup in 2005 was a Hurricane Katrina dog. Since then, she estimates she’s fostered anywhere from 30–50 dogs.
When asked how she would describe the emotional aspect of fostering, Karen said, “When I foster a dog, I know the first few weeks can be pretty tough. But when I see the dog start making progress, it is totally worth it.”
Karen also serves as support for struggling new fosters. “I tell them that when fostering a dog, I almost always feel overwhelmed and teary at some point during the first week,” said Karen. “They are relieved to hear that it’s hard for all of us—they assume it’s just them, or that particular dog.”
All dogs who come into RAGOM’s foster care have just had their entire life turned upside down. It’s no surprise, then, that the most rewarding aspect of fostering is when, after the first few weeks, the dog starts to flourish. By the time the dog is adopted out to its forever family, Karen says foster volunteers almost certainly cry again—but this time tears of joy because they love the foster dog so much and know they have given that dog a new chance at a happy life.
“This is why we do it again and again,” said Karen. “It’s so gratifying!”
If you’d like to join our mighty village of more than 300 RAGOM volunteers, please check out our volunteer openings.
Foster homes needed
RAGOM is experimenting with a foster program for dogs rescued from commercial breeding. So far, the pilot program has made a big impact. We’ve been able to rescue a record number of dogs in the past few months. We’re thrilled that these special dogs aren’t suffering anymore; now they’re valued for who they are instead of how many puppies they produce.
There are so many more dogs in need of rescue, but we need your help! If we can attract enough foster volunteers, we can take in even more. If you haven’t fostered before, we will support you and walk you through the process. All veterinary costs are covered by RAGOM. Those who foster a dog rescued from commercial breeding have the option to adopt them before the dog is placed on the Adoptable Dogs website page.
We are desperate for foster homes. Can you help?
Because they have never known life outside of a cage, dogs rescued from commercial breeding tend to be fearful, and lack basic skills like walking through doorways or up a flight of stairs. But helping them succeed is incredibly rewarding. Watch a video of Herbert, one of the dogs we recently rescued from an auction, learning how to walk down steps here.
Requirements:
- If you have children in the home, they should be 10 years or older and dog-savvy
- Need a medium or large (at least 35 pounds) confident dog to mentor your foster dog. (Learn more about why this is necessary.)
- You do not need a fenced yard, but you need a plan to keep the dog safe. Dogs rescued from commercial breeding are flight risks because they startle easily.
Interested? Want to know more? Visit the Foster section of our website, and contact [email protected]. Let’s give these dogs a chance at a golden life!
Goodbye Prince
Prince was a sweetheart! He loved his people and nothing pleased him more than spending his day with them. Prince loved the backyard and the house – his two favorite places to be.
Prince’s foster family noticed that Prince displayed signs of being abused when he first came to their home, but he learned he could trust them and loved the petting he would receive from them. Prince loved toys and large Kong tennis balls. He loved to play housekeeper and would pick up any clothing you may have had laying around, mostly socks and towels. He loved looking for a bunny, seeing a bunny, chasing a bunny, catching a bunny – anything that had to do with a bunny. Prince also loved to be talked to.
Prince had so much love to give and brought great joy to many. The tough life he had prior to RAGOM disappeared the moment he entered RAGOM. Prince wanted and needed a very simple life, which RAGOM provided for him. Four years is a long time for a dog to be in a rescue, but RAGOM’s dedication to keeping Prince safe, secure and loved, with a wonderful foster family that loved him, was priority. Prince’s foster family’s plans were to adopt Prince, prior to his passing, but he became sick very quickly and within less than a few hours they had to say their goodbyes.
His family wrote, “We are forever grateful that RAGOM picked us to be Prince’s Mom and Dad. He will forever be our ‘Poo or Momma’s Boy’. Prince was adopted by us posthumously. Rest in peace our sweet boy; we love you!!” You were loved Prince. So very loved.
A Good Cause. A Great Day. Goldzilla, It Was GIGANTIC!
It was big, it was hairy, it was great!
Thank you for making Goldzilla 2017 a success! We’ve added up the walk pledges, corporate sponsorships, raffle ticket sales, silent auction sales, merchandise and concessions sales, and other donations. With your help, Goldzilla raised $87,207—almost $5,000 more than last year!
To learn how your donations support dogs in RAGOM’s care, read Where Your Money Goes.
We look forward to seeing you at Goldzilla 2018 on Sunday, September 9.
Originally posted on Monday, July 10, 2017:
Join us Sunday, September 10, at Long Lake Regional Park in New Brighton, Minnesota for Goldzilla, RAGOM’s annual Fun Fair and Walk for Rescue—and one of the biggest Golden Retriever events in America! All funds raised at this event support our mission of rescuing and rehoming Golden Retrievers and Golden mixes of all ages. Admission is free!
There is so much to see and do, including activities for both you and your dog: K9 NoseWork demonstrations, a tricks booth, lure course, doggie lotto, agility area, off-leash play, swimming, and a social media photo contest. Plan a shopping spree in the vendor village and scope out the silent auction and wine pull.
But perhaps the most fun is the Walk for Rescue. Register for the walk and collect pledges to earn fabulous prizes.
A good cause. A great day. Goldzilla—it’s GIGANTIC! For more information about this event, visit the Goldzilla website.
Newspaper recognizes book about RAGOM dog Sully
The Pioneer Press recently recognized the children’s book “Sully” in their feature on children’s books that teach and touch the heart. Sully was rescued by RAGOM from Turkey, and is now a certified therapy dog. His story will inspire you and make you smile! Read the article here.
Join us for Goldzilla on September 19
This year’s Goldzilla event will be held Sunday, September 19, 2021 at Long Lake Regional Park in New Brighton, MN. More details will be coming soon!
Grateful for What We Have, but We Could Use a Little Help
We have much to be grateful for at RAGOM.
All of the dogs at RAGOM are safe in loving foster homes. Our volunteers are doing amazing things every day to ensure each dog gets care, and we are continuing to rescue dogs in need (while following social distancing guidelines and local ordinances).
We know times are tough. But if you’re able, we could use a little help.
Donate to Help RAGOM Through COVID-19
Although our adoptions are on hold while we get through the pandemic, our expenses keep coming in. Normally, adoption fees make up a significant part of our monthly budget, and regular donations arrive in our mailbox.
We have 75 dogs currently in our care, and they’ll all be with us at least through the pandemic. In addition to their veterinary bills, we need to cover their monthly prescriptions: heartworm and tick preventatives, parasite medications, antibiotics for ear infections, medicines for fearful dogs who are overcoming trauma, and pills for arthritic senior dogs.
We are bracing and preparing for the months ahead. If previous economic downturns are any indication, we may see a large increase in surrendered dogs in the coming months. We are doing all we can to prepare, so we’ll be able to welcome and care for a potential influx of Goldens.
Donate to Help RAGOM Through COVID-19
Julie gave us a big surprise
Several weeks ago, five-year-old Julie arrived in our care. We rescued her from an auction during a breeder sellout. She was so emaciated her ribs protruded.
Julie was being fostered in South Dakota, where vet surgeries are still being performed. Yesterday, her foster brought her to the vet for her spay appointment. Before surgery, the veterinarian examined her and noticed something shocking: Julie is very pregnant. She’s due to give birth any day.
This came as quite a surprise, because another vet clinic somehow missed the pregnancy just a few weeks before. Julie’s foster mom had noticed some little changes, but she’d been giving Julie extra food to help her gain weight, and many breeder rescues arrive with low hanging mammaries. And because Julie is shy, her foster hadn’t been rubbing her belly.
Julie’s foster didn’t have the needed supplies to care for a mama dog in labor, or the puppies that follow. We’re in the midst of a pandemic and we had a dog ready to give birth at any moment, so quick decisions had to be made. A volunteer drove for hours to get Julie to a new foster who had the needed equipment, as well as previous experience in caring for mama dogs and infants.
We are excited and ready to give Julie and her puppies the care they need. But her story is just one of the 75 dogs currently in our care. Each of them requires funds to ensure they stay safe and healthy. If you’re able to help, we’d be grateful for your support.